Written by UGC Creator Kayla Bucknor.

Becoming a mom has been one of the most amazing and transformative experiences of my life. It's filled with joy, challenges, and so many questions. As a new mama myself, I remember those first few weeks all too well—excited but often overwhelmed.

I’m one of five children, and yet I had sooo many questions. So, whether you're adjusting to a newborn’s unpredictable schedule or hitting the four-month regression, know that you’re not alone.

Here are five tips that have helped me navigate this new chapter with confidence and grace:

1. Embrace the Chaos

Let’s be honest—life as a new mom can feel super chaotic. My son was born a month premature, and our home was in disarray! I quickly learned that laundry piles up, sleep seems like a distant memory, your husband snores too loudly, and your once-organized life feels like a distant memory. It's okay! Instead of striving for perfection, sometimes we have to embrace the messiness.

Focus on the small victories, like getting through the day, enjoying snuggles with your baby, and allowing yourself some grace. I had an emergency c-section, so moving around was difficult. I often struggled to get anything done and felt like I was not doing enough, but there’s no such thing as a "perfect" mom.

2. Trust Your Instincts

Oftentimes, mothers and doctors would tell me, “It will come to you” or “Don’t worry, it’s instinct.” The truth is, you know your baby better than you think. If something feels off, don’t hesitate to speak up, and don’t be afraid to ask questions or for help. If you feel confident in your choices, stick with them. Motherhood doesn’t come with a manual, but eventually, you’ll find your rhythm.

3. Take Care of Yourself

It's easy to forget about self-care when you're in the throes of caring for a newborn, but taking time for yourself is really important. Whether it's a five-minute shower, a quiet cup of coffee, or a walk outside, these small breaks can recharge your spirit. Don't be afraid to ask for help, whether from your partner, family, or friends. My father used to always tell me, “You can't pour from an empty cup.”

4. Find Your Tribe

It helps to surround yourself with a support system of other moms who understand what you're going through. Whether it’s at church, online, family, or even a friend who’s been through it before, having someone to share your highs and lows with makes a world of difference.

I have been fortunate enough to have friends and my sisters-in-law pregnant around the same time, and now we have little ones just months apart. We go to church together, have date nights, share tips and tricks, but most importantly, we speak about how we feel.

Being a new mom, or a mother in general, is hard—it’s even harder when you feel alone. You’ll find comfort in knowing you’re not the only one navigating sleepless nights, your hubby snoring, or unpredictable baby behavior.

5. Enjoy the Little Moments

Amid the exhaustion, don’t forget to cherish the small, beautiful moments—your baby’s first smile, those 4am cuddles. These moments may seem small, but they’re the ones you’ll remember forever.

Final Thoughts

The early days of motherhood are full of ups and downs, but every challenge is matched with indescribable joy. I thank God every day for this blessing He’s given my little family. You’re doing amazing, even when it doesn’t feel like it. Take things one day at a time, lean on your support system, and most importantly, trust in your ability to navigate this new role. You’ve got this, mamas!